Hey Freak!

Posted by: fracas on July 17 @ 9:11 am

“Hey Freak, did you feed the animals this morning?” I leave the question hanging. I refuse to reply. “Did you feed the animals this morning?” Reninout asks again, this time impatiently.
“Are you talking to me?” I pretend to be cool and not respond to the name Freak. After all I have given in on Stinky, but Freak seems a tad too far.

But is it really? What’s in a word? And if we accept the names and epithets of others, does it really make us into these descriptions…for better or worse? In usual fashion I’m Stinky, Dumbass and Freak, all bundled into one. On the way to the train I gave it some though. Perhaps it’s not as bad as it sounds. Perhaps the moment of acceptance (rather than quiet resignation) has come. I’m still of the firm belief that the messenger has noble intentions, and it’s just his way of showing love. What’s in a word after all? I decide to be cool with it. So honey, be aware….you’re married to a FREAK!

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  1. On Jul. 17 2009 @ 9:39 am Karima said

    Everything someone says is a reflection of their reality :D xxx

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  2. On Jul. 17 2009 @ 6:09 pm Super C said

    Perhaps even try a few yourself. Your husband has apparently not exhausted the list of flattering words that he repeatedly is throwing over his beloved wife. Perhaps you should start serving the scrambled eggs in the morning with here you go f**k - face, dork or slime.
    I’m sure it would be well appreciated in the longrun ;-) And of course, since this appears to be his cup of tea, he would have a deep understanding for your highly sophisticated way of showing profound emotions of true love.

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  3. On Jul. 17 2009 @ 9:08 pm Jaws said

    What ts this? No respect?

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  4. On Jul. 18 2009 @ 3:15 am Salsa Gigolo said

    Hi, I follow your blog because sometimes you write about salsa.

    I rarely leave comments on blogs, but this isn’t the first time that you’ve blogged about name calling, and frankly, it makes me feel bad reading about it all the time.

    On behalf of all Canadian Salsa Gigolos, for whom I am not their official spokesman, I would ask your husband to please start using nicer nicknames, so I don’t have to feel bad everytime I read your blog.

    I would suggest “honey”, or “darling”, or “sweetheart” as potential subsitute nicknames. Please pick any nickname that you would want your future son-in-law to call your daughter.

    Other than that, it sounds like you have a nice life, and I wish you both well with all your ventures.

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  5. On Jul. 18 2009 @ 11:53 am Reinout said

    hey Freak. freaky posting, freakin’ responses. As I said, as long as you talk about “negative” stuff, people will respond, traffic goes up etc..

    I think your next posting realy will tick them of.

    bye freakin’ wife of mine
    x

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  6. On Jul. 18 2009 @ 10:19 pm reinout said

    Om jag måste välja mellan att älska dig och andas. Jag vill använda mitt sista andetag säga att jag älskar dig.

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  7. On Jul. 18 2009 @ 10:32 pm fracas said

    Your Message@reinout:
    Alskar dig annu mer! Always & Forever xxx

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  8. On Jul. 19 2009 @ 1:39 pm Super C said

    interesting that the topic is recognized as “negative” by its’ own source of production

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  9. On Jul. 19 2009 @ 9:10 pm Rein said

    Älskling, jag kan inte uttrycka mina känslor på hur mycket jag älskar dig. Du har gett mig den vackraste son. Du är min söndag i mitt liv. xxx

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